The main difference between the "legacy" and non-legacy TubePress widget is that you can use multiple instances of the non-legacy widget. So if you are only using one TubePress widget, and you like the way the legacy widget looks, feel free to stick with it.
The current means of configuring both the new and old widgets is to supply a TubePress shortcode, using any of the options that we make available. It's not the most user-friendly configuration, I apologize for that, but it gets the job done and allows users to configure the widget exactly the way they want it. Here's a shortcode that you might want to try in the widget:
[tubepress playerLocation="jqmodal" paginationBelow="false" paginationAbove="false" resultsPerPage="3"]
This will turn off pagination, use jqModal to play the videos (which will get rid of the embedded player at the top), and show 3 videos in the widget. Based on what I can see on your site, it seems like adding playerLocation="jqmodal" might be all you need to do; I don't see the pagination.
Does that make sense? Let me know - thanks!Go to the full post